It’s holiday time and that means you will have to become extra diligent at becoming your baby’s number one advocate. Here are some healthy boundaries you can set with those who come in contact with your baby.
Your child does not have to hug any they don’t want to hug.
This also applies to sitting on laps or giving kisses (I’m looking at you Santa, Aunt, Uncle, Cousin). Make a person ask you and your child for permission before initiating any of the above mentioned acts.
Primary nutritional needs are met via breastmilk or formula for babies under the age of one.
Consider the “table food” talk only if your child is six months or older and is sitting up by themselves. This means they are not propped up by the back of the high chair. If you’ve heard conflicting information, it is not substantiated in research and should be practiced with caution.
It’s cold and flu season!
Ask anyone who wishes to handle your baby to wash their hands. Additionally, ask them to refrain from kissing the baby on their face, hands, feet, or anywhere germs can easily be spread.
Your baby, your rules!
You are your baby’s first line of defense so go with your gut and exercise discernment. If you want to hold your baby the entire time, so be it!
Bonus: if you’re breastfeeding I threw something in there for you, too.
You do not have to pump + dump!
Generally speaking, if you are sober enough to drive, then you are sober enough to breastfeed. To err on the side of caution: nursing should take place two or more hours after alcohol consumption to minimize alcohol ingestion.
What are some other things to consider during this time? Let us know in the comment section below!
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